Rumpelstiltskin2000 Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 New NME article: The Big Read – Green Day: “We live our lives as if we have nothing” Green Day have spent three decades not giving a fuck – but what's the key to their longevity? Kevin EG Perry joins the band in their tiny LA rehearsal room to talk inspiring Billie Eilish, blistering new album 'Father Of All Motherfuckers' and maybe meeting Donald Trump at one of their shows. Pictures: Matt Salacuse for NME It’s a miserable day in Oakland. The northern Californian skies are 50 shades of shitty and the rain is lashing down, leaving puddles so deep the hipsters are probably wearing waders. You don’t want to be outside on a day like today. The only sensible thing to do in this sort of environment is stay in, get stoned and maybe form a punk band. Welcome to paradise. Inside an anonymous building on a quiet back street there’s a rehearsal room belonging to three 47-year-old guys who did just that something like a lifetime ago. These days singer Billie Joe Armstrong, bassist Mike Dirnt and drummer Tré Cool (not his real name) make up one of the world’s biggest bands, but you’d be hard pressed to guess that from the room we’re in. It could almost be a teenage band’s garage. There are a couple of sofas and a few rugs thrown about, but the most eye-catching feature is a couple of circular drum skins pinned to the wall above a guitar rack. They’ve each been divided into pie slices with thick black pen, and they can be spun to create new musical mash-ups. One side features tempos such as: ‘Fast’, ‘Swing’ and ‘Psychedelic Trippy’. The other genres, including: ‘Glam’, ‘60s Garage’ and ‘British Pop Invasion’. “That’s for when you come in and you’re like: ‘I got nothing’,” explains the bequiffed Mike. “You go spin the wheel and you’re on deck. Make something happen. It’s like someone whining: ‘I don’t know what to paint!’ Green. Go motherfucker! Paint something green.” The idea of musical genres being smashed together at speed makes sense once you hear their new album – which, in case you were worried Green Day might have grown up, is called ‘Father Of All Motherfuckers’. Billie Joe, resplendent in a leather jacket that wouldn’t have looked out of place on a Hell’s Angel, says the record was inspired by the likes of original ’50s rock’n’roller Little Richard, ’60s garage rockers The Sonics, Motown legends Martha and the Vandellas, proto-Gorillaz cartoon band The Archies and British glam stars Mott The Hoople. The result is fun, frenetic and very, very fast. It’s the shortest record they’ve ever made: the whole thing over in under 27 minutes. “We started off the record writing nasty garage music,” says Billie Joe. “We took all of those influences and just put it through Green Day. We’ve never gone there before, and it sounds fucking rad.” It’s a far cry from three decades ago, when these three were just a bunch of kids trying to stay out of the rain. Billie Joe and Mike were 14 when they formed their first band, Sweet Children. Before long they’d changed their name to something that reflected how much weed they smoked, played a bunch of shows, snorted a pile of speed and, in 1990, put out their debut album ‘39/Smooth’. It sold fewer than 3,000 copies, and the band’s original drummer Josh Kiffmeyer decided he was probably better off concentrating on school. Tré joined in his place and their next record, 1991’s ‘Kerplunk’, shifted a respectable 50,000 copies. Things were starting to look up, and after the phenomenal success of Nirvana’s ‘Nevermind’ that same year major labels were sniffing around guitar bands again. Reprise Records, a subsidiary of Warner, offered them a deal. The label hoped the next Green Day record might sell 100,000 copies. It sold 10 million. ‘Dookie’, released on 1 February 1994 and still an objectively perfect album, changed Green Day’s lives forever – they didn’t know it at the time. “We were touring in Europe opening for Die Toten Hosen, doing everything we could to not get booed off stage by their insane fans,” remembers Mike. “I think we sold one shirt the whole time, but then we came back to the States and hit the Lollapalooza tour…” That tour saw Green Day booked as the opening act on a bill that also included The Smashing Pumpkins, Beastie Boys, George Clinton, The Breeders, A Tribe Called Quest, Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds and L7. By the time the tour started, the massive success of ‘Dookie’ meant fans weren’t happy about their new heroes playing the shortest sets. “By then we had sold more records than everyone else on the tour,” explains Mike. “They were fucking stupid enough to run us as the opening band and then blame us for rioting and shit. Come on, dude, really? But you know, we were kids. Of course we loved it! Fuck yeah!” Billie Joe remembers the ill-fated Woodstock ‘94 – which also turned into a riot when 550,000 people turned up even though only 164,000 tickets had been sold – as the moment at which he realised nothing would ever be the same again for him or the band. “When I think about that show and how crazy it was, being in front of a national audience, and flying away in a helicopter afterwards, that was when I realised: ‘Oh, things are starting to happen,” he says. “It was: ‘My life is about to take a totally different turn’.” For a start, ‘Dookie’ made them beyond-their-wildest-wet-dreams rich – not necessarily the best look for a band who only ever wanted to be thought of as punk. “I’ve always had a strange relationship with money just ‘cause I’ve never really aspired for it,” says Billie Joe. “Maybe I wanted to be a rock star and do that kind of stuff, but it was never to be a big shot. We live our lives as if we have nothing and I think that gives us a better reason to know how to share, do the right things and keep a DIY spirit.” You can hear that DIY spirit all over the records that followed ‘Dookie’ – 1995’s ‘Insomniac’ and 1997’s ‘Nimrod’ – but you’ll also hear the sound of a punk band becoming musically ambitious. “I think we have transitional records,” says Billie Joe. “When I look back now, on both ‘Nimrod’ and ‘Warning’, we were pushing ourselves in a different direction. Without those records there wouldn’t have been an ‘American Idiot’ or a ‘21st Century Breakdown’. It’s about trying to push things in a new direction all the time.” American Idiot’, released in 2004, proved to be their biggest hit since ‘Dookie’: an ambitious ‘punk rock opera’ inspired by a simpler and more innocent time when we all truly believed that George W. Bush was the stupidest man who would ever be President of the United States. “He was just a different brand of stupid,” says Billie Joe, with a laugh. “There’s a variety of stupid. Right now it’s just straight fascist stupid.” ‘American Idiot’ took on a life of its own. It was adapted into a stage musical in 2009, moving to Broadway the following year, but Billie Joe reveals that previously announced plans for a film adaptation have now been “pretty much scrapped”. He adds that, in a truly bizarre turn of events, Donald Trump actually turned up to opening night in New York. He’s not sure whether the two actually met. “I didn’t… wait, maybe I shook his hand?” he starts, before Mike chimes in: “You shook so many small hands that night!” Billie Joe can explain why Trump showed up, and it’s not that he’s a closet ‘Insomniac’ fan. “At the beginning of ‘American Idiot’ there’s a montage of all this pop culture garbage, one being ‘American Idol’, and another was him saying: ‘You’re fired!’,” he says. “So that’s the reason he came, because he’d heard that his face was going to be on the screen. He’s a sociopath, you know?” Despite what you may assume, the title of the band’s new album is not in fact a reference to the current President. “I mean, you can’t help but think about Trump a little bit, but that wasn’t really in the front of my mind,” says Billie Joe. “‘Father Of All Motherfuckers’ is just a badass title.” Generally speaking he’s steered clear of writing about politics this time around. “It was just too obvious,” he says. “We live in really dangerous times right now. Everything feels sort of unpredictable. America is really fucked up and it’s hard to draw any inspiration from it because it just depresses me.” It may be a party record, but the state of the world can’t help but creep in to the lyrics. On the title track, Billie Joe sings: “Choking up on the smoke from above / I’m obsessed with the poison and us / What a mess ’cause there’s no one to trust.” It’s hard not to think of the devastating fires raging in Australia when you hear those words, and Billie Joe points out they’ve had similar experiences closer to home. “We’ve had to deal with our own fires in California as well,” he says. “It’s displaced a lot of people and really fucked up the environment. With a lot of these songs there are certain lines that I’ll come up with and it’s almost foreshadowing things to come. Songs like ‘American Idiot’ and ‘Minority’ have stayed relevant to this day without me really trying.” This summer, the band head out on tour with Fall Out Boy and Weezer for a series of stadium shows dubbed the ‘The Hella Mega Tour’. It will call at Glasgow, London, Huddersfield and Dublin this June. “It’s been pretty fucking hilarious so far,” says Mike. “Everyone’s taking the piss a little bit. It’s like our version of the Monsters of Rock. I don’t think anybody’s taking themselves too seriously, and I think people can sense that by the giant rainbow-puking unicorn that is the icon of the entire fucking thing.” Back in 2012, Billie Joe had a well-publicised onstage meltdown at the iHeartRadio festival in Las Vegas, smashing his guitar and screaming, perhaps redundantly: “I’m not fucking Justin Bieber.” He immediately checked into a rehab program for alcohol and prescription drug abuse and spent several years sober, but says that’s now changed. “I’m not really sober anymore,” he says. “I had a time where I needed to learn to grow up a little bit and take responsibility for myself and for my own independence, and I did. Now I’m moving forward. I had a good run, so let the good times roll!” 34 years since first getting together themselves, Green Day can make a reasonable claim to being one of the world’s leading causes of people picking up a guitar or forming a band. The 1975’s Matt Healy has said that the moment he became determined to become a musician was when, aged 13, the band pulled him out of the crowd to join them on bass during a show in front of 10,000 people at Newcastle Arena. Billie Eilish – who wasn’t even born when ‘Dookie’ came out – has stated that it’s one of her favourite albums. “Her brother Finneas came to one of our shows and Tre gave him a pair of sticks when he was, like, 12 years old,” adds Billie Joe. “Even Ed Sheeran saw us play Wembley Arena, heard ‘Time Of Your Life’ and was inspired by that. That’s cool to us because that’s the way we feel about the people that we admire, our favourite musicians and bands. It’s just a trip. Time is crazy.” The secret of the band’s longevity is probably not, as Tré jokes, “micro-dosing heroin”. It’s in their music. “We still aspire to make good records,” says Billie Joe. “We’re still trying to find different influences and sounds, and the lyrics change depending on where you’re at. I feel like I’ve been able to document my time on Earth through songs.” “We all have a real deep desire to leave this music on this planet because it’s gonna be around a lot longer than us,” adds Mike. “It’s timeless. That’s meant something to me for so fucking long. This is the biggest thing I’ll ever do – that’s just a fact.” The eternal teenagers may now be pushing 50, but the future Matt Healys and Billie Eilishs (and Ed Sheerans, sure) of the world can rest assured Green Day have no plans to retire – at least, until the final curtain. “There’s a day where everybody retires,” says Mike doomily, making his bandmates laugh. “The big sleep!” elaborates Tré, but the last word belongs to Billie Joe: “‘Til death do us part, I guess.” Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thatsername Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 Holy Jesus the pics😍 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 53 minutes ago, Rumpelstiltskin2000 said: There are a couple of sofas and a few rugs thrown about, but the most eye-catching feature is a couple of circular drum skins pinned to the wall above a guitar rack. They’ve each been divided into pie slices with thick black pen, and they can be spun to create new musical mash-ups. One side features tempos such as: ‘Fast’, ‘Swing’ and ‘Psychedelic Trippy’. The other genres, including: ‘Glam’, ‘60s Garage’ and ‘British Pop Invasion’. “That’s for when you come in and you’re like: ‘I got nothing’,” explains the bequiffed Mike. “You go spin the wheel and you’re on deck. Make something happen. I love this lol 53 minutes ago, Rumpelstiltskin2000 said: ‘American Idiot’ took on a life of its own. It was adapted into a stage musical in 2009, moving to Broadway the following year, but Billie Joe reveals that previously announced plans for a film adaptation have now been “pretty much scrapped”. Thank god. 53 minutes ago, Rumpelstiltskin2000 said: This summer, the band head out on tour with Fall Out Boy and Weezer for a series of stadium shows dubbed the ‘The Hella Mega Tour’. It will call at Glasgow, London, Huddersfield and Dublin this June. “It’s been pretty fucking hilarious so far,” says Mike. “Everyone’s taking the piss a little bit. It’s like our version of the Monsters of Rock. I don’t think anybody’s taking themselves too seriously, and I think people can sense that by the giant rainbow-puking unicorn that is the icon of the entire fucking thing.” Again, THANK GOD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beyza Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 44 minutes ago, Thatsername said: Holy Jesus the pics😍 They look so frigging cool, I wanna cry 😭 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stories and songs Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 Ugh. Listen – I know a lot of people don’t like to talk about this, and Billie is an adult who can make his own decisions, but the whole “I had a good run being sober, so now let the good times roll!” stuff...quite frankly, pisses me off, and is the reason why I’m not into this era. When Billie had his iHeart meltdown, my mom was going through treatment for breast cancer. I felt so fucking alone having to worry about my favorite singer and the future of my favorite band when I should’ve been able to lean on their music for comfort. He said, in his own words, that he was a drunk who would drink to the point of blacking out, and couldn’t stop at one drink. That even sober he still felt an obsession with alcohol, but that the band was supporting him in toning down the partying backstage. Mike was so supportive, and Tre said he was really scared when all of this was going down. I was so proud of how Billie and his band mates handled that situation, and RevRad went on to be the most joyful time I’ve ever had as a Green Day fan. They seemed so truly happy, so healthy, and so honest with themselves and with their music. So singing about drugs and partying while freely admitting he’s no longer sober now just doesn’t float for me, and I feel embarrassed for ever believing they ever took this stuff seriously. I don’t think anything I’m saying is overstepping any personal boundaries because this is all stuff they’ve shared themselves. And you know, if Billie has found a way to party and not ruin his life, good for him. But it reads to me as someone who just wants to sweep the yucky stuff under the rug so he can have fun again, and I’m not gonna stick around and wait to see how that goes. I’m just not. 2012 was a nightmare for me, personally and in the fandom. I hope that time never repeats itself, but I don’t think I can hang around to find out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DookieLukie Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 2 minutes ago, stories and songs said: Ugh. Listen – I know a lot of people don’t like to talk about this, and Billie is an adult who can make his own decisions, but the whole “I had a good run being sober, so now let the good times roll!” stuff...quite frankly, pisses me off, and is the reason why I’m not into this era. When Billie had his iHeart meltdown, my mom was going through treatment for breast cancer. I felt so fucking alone having to worry about my favorite singer and the future of my favorite band when I should’ve been able to lean on their music for comfort. He said, in his own words, that he was a drunk who would drink to the point of blacking out, and couldn’t stop at one drink. That even sober he still felt an obsession with alcohol, but that the band was supporting him in toning down the partying backstage. Mike was so supportive, and Tre said he was really scared when all of this was going down. I was so proud of how Billie and his band mates handled that situation, and RevRad went on to be the most joyful time I’ve ever had as a Green Day fan. They seemed so truly happy, so healthy, and so honest with themselves and with their music. So singing about drugs and partying now just doesn’t float for me, and I feel embarrassed for ever believing they ever took this stuff seriously. I don’t think anything I’m saying is overstepping any personal boundaries because this is all stuff they’ve shared themselves. And you know, if Billie has found a way to party and not ruin his life, good for him. But it reads to me as someone who just wants to sweep the yucky stuff under the rug so he can have fun again, and I’m not gonna stick around and wait to see how that goes. I’m just not. 2012 was a nightmare for me, personally and in the fandom. I hope that time never repeats itself, but I don’t think I can hang around to find out. Why does partying imply he's using drugs and alcohol? I lot of former addicts write about their past and using but are still sober. Seems like Billie often writes humor into serious issues as a way to process or cope with his issues. He doesn't have to move to a monastery; you can be sober and have a good time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stories and songs Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 @DookieLukie he said in the interview he is no longer sober. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DookieLukie Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 Just now, stories and songs said: @DookieLukie he said in the interview he is no longer sober. Does that mean drugs though? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenny Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 6 minutes ago, stories and songs said: Ugh. Listen – I know a lot of people don’t like to talk about this, and Billie is an adult who can make his own decisions, but the whole “I had a good run being sober, so now let the good times roll!” stuff...quite frankly, pisses me off, and is the reason why I’m not into this era. When Billie had his iHeart meltdown, my mom was going through treatment for breast cancer. I felt so fucking alone having to worry about my favorite singer and the future of my favorite band when I should’ve been able to lean on their music for comfort. He said, in his own words, that he was a drunk who would drink to the point of blacking out, and couldn’t stop at one drink. That even sober he still felt an obsession with alcohol, but that the band was supporting him in toning down the partying backstage. Mike was so supportive, and Tre said he was really scared when all of this was going down. I was so proud of how Billie and his band mates handled that situation, and RevRad went on to be the most joyful time I’ve ever had as a Green Day fan. They seemed so truly happy, so healthy, and so honest with themselves and with their music. So singing about drugs and partying now just doesn’t float for me, and I feel embarrassed for ever believing they ever took this stuff seriously. I don’t think anything I’m saying is overstepping any personal boundaries because this is all stuff they’ve shared themselves. And you know, if Billie has found a way to party and not ruin his life, good for him. But it reads to me as someone who just wants to sweep the yucky stuff under the rug so he can have fun again, and I’m not gonna stick around and wait to see how that goes. I’m just not. 2012 was a nightmare for me, personally and in the fandom. I hope that time never repeats itself, but I don’t think I can hang around to find out. He went through treatment and he got people looking out for him in the band. You can party and be responsible. I understand your concern though, it's obvious it's from a good place. I don't think there's anything to worry about. He really learned something from the Trilogy disaster. I don't think they'd let that happen to him or us again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Squashie Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 1 minute ago, DookieLukie said: Why does partying imply he's using drugs and alcohol? I lot of former addicts write about their past and using but are still sober. Seems like Billie often writes humor into serious issues as a way to process or cope with his issues. He doesn't have to move to a monastery; you can be sober and have a good time. While everyone is entitled to their feelings on this subject, you can't sit there and down talk @stories and songs about how they feel about it. Because the truth is Billie Joe is drinking again. He has said it publicly (at least 2 times in the recent articles & videos) and there is photo/video evidence of him drinking on stage/at events. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenny Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 2 minutes ago, DookieLukie said: Does that mean drugs though? it means magic mushrooms Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stories and songs Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 @DookieLukie I guess I should take that part out of my comment. My problem isn’t so much what he’s writing about but the fact that he had all these issues and admits he is no longer sober. Which again is his choice, but I explained why it just doesn’t work for me to still be a fan knowing this. Which bums me out, because I’ve been a fan for a really long time. But they were treating this issue seriously and no longer are, and I just don’t feel the need to sit by and watch. That’s all. If it doesn’t bother other people, I get it and that’s fine too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenny Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 Just now, DadBod said: While everyone is entitled to their feelings on this subject, you can't sit there and down talk @stories and songs about how they feel about it. Because the truth is Billie Joe is drinking again. He has said it publicly (at least 2 times in the recent articles & videos) and there is photo/video evidence of him drinking on stage/at events. You can drink responsibly though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Boy Named Booze Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 1 minute ago, Sheenius said: You can drink responsibly though WHAT? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DookieLukie Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 1 minute ago, stories and songs said: @DookieLukie I guess I should take that part out of my comment. My problem isn’t so much what he’s writing about but the fact that he had all these issues and admits he is no longer sober. Which again is his choice, but I explained why it just doesn’t work for me to still be a fan knowing this. Which bums me out, because I’ve been a fan for a really long time. But they were treating this issue seriously and no longer are, and I just don’t feel the need to sit by and watch. That’s all. If it doesn’t bother other people, I get it and that’s fine too. Plenty of people with alcohol issues cut back and drink responsibly. To condemn him for that and disown the band is a bit steep. Your choice but it seems you're too emotionally invested in his personal life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marina86 Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 I love that Die Toten Hosen get a shoutout 😁 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Squashie Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 Just now, Sheenius said: You can drink responsibly though True and I mentioned nothing about his consumption. While I don't like the idea of him drinking because he clearly had a problem for years with it, I don't know him personally, I'm not his doctor/family/inner circle member, therefore have no merit on his well-being/health. My point in response to DookieLukie was to not insult others who express concern. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenny Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 3 minutes ago, Little Boy Named Airplane said: WHAT? Do as I say not as I do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beerjeezus Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 5 minutes ago, Little Boy Named Airplane said: WHAT? At least some people can Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DookieLukie Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 4 minutes ago, DadBod said: True and I mentioned nothing about his consumption. While I don't like the idea of him drinking because he clearly had a problem for years with it, I don't know him personally, I'm not his doctor/family/inner circle member, therefore have no merit on his well-being/health. My point in response to DookieLukie was to not insult others who express concern. I wasn't being insulting. I had a counter opinion. That's not what an insult is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stories and songs Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 7 minutes ago, DookieLukie said: Plenty of people with alcohol issues cut back and drink responsibly. To condemn him for that and disown the band is a bit steep. Your choice but it seems you're too emotionally invested in his personal life. My issues here come from a personal place of 1) dealing with his first meltdown during a very difficult time in my own life and struggling with the fact that my favorite band was just an added source of stress instead of a comfort and 2) dealing with family and friends who thought they had a handle on their addictions and did not. I’m not overly emotionally invested in his personal life, but obviously I like him and this band a whole lot and want them all to be well, and feel like they’re contradicting everything that made me such a happy fan just a few years ago. Their choices are their own and that’s cool. They’re 20 years older than me and can do what they want. And I’m not trying to argue with anyone who just wants to listen to the music and doesn’t care beyond that, or thinks his drinking is fine, or whatever. It’s a personal thing and I get that. But for me it’s concerning and not something I want to be part of anymore. I’ll still happily buy their music – I’m not condemning or disowning. I just can’t be a huge, invested fan anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenny Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 1 minute ago, Beerjeezus said: At least some people can Don't have to rub it in eh 1 minute ago, stories and songs said: My issues here come from a personal place of 1) dealing with his first meltdown during a very difficult time in my own life and struggling with the fact that my favorite band was just an added source of stress instead of a comfort and 2) dealing with family and friends who thought they had a handle on their addictions and did not. I’m not overly emotionally invested in his personal life, but obviously I like him and this band a whole lot and want them all to be well, and feel like they’re contradicting everything that made me such a happy fan just a few years ago. Their choices are their own and that’s cool. They’re 20 years older than me and can do what they want. And I’m not trying to argue with anyone who just wants to listen to the music and doesn’t care beyond that, or thinks his drinking is fine, or whatever. It’s a personal thing and I get that. But for me it’s concerning and not something I want to be part of anymore. so are you not a fan anymore? I don't really get the last sentence. Or are you boycotting the tour? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stories and songs Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 I edited it to explain I’ll still buy their music and I’m not trying to condemn or disown, but I just can’t be a super invested fan anymore. That’s all. I have tickets for the tour. I’m just not going to be the “read every interview, watch every performance” type anymore. I think I’ve sadly outgrown them in certain ways and being a casual fan would work better for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clockwise Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 As an adult child of an alcoholic who has tried and failed again and again to drink in moderation I can tell you this much - it simply isn't healthy for you to be so invested in someone else's sobriety. You need to detach with love for your own wellbeing. That's pretty much what I've had to do. We can't control Billie Joe and to be honest we barely even know him. We just know the picture of himself he's painted for us over the years and that picture does give us reason to believe he can't drink responsibly, he's said so himself many times over the years. But there is much more to his life than we've been privy to, and much more to our lives than Green Day. So yeah, I totally understand where you're coming from and share some of the same thoughts, but in the end it's none of our business and not healthy to let someone else's personal choices weigh so heavily on us. And yeah I am for sure putting way too much of my personal experience into this but it's all I got. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stories and songs Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 @Clockwise, thank you for your thoughts and kindness. Detaching with love is precisely what I’m doing. And just to be clear, I’m not fretting day and night about his health or anything – I take breaks from the band when they’re on hiatus and was totally ready to get back into active fan mode with the new album, but came back to find his attitude disappointing, simply on a personal level, even though I understand and respect that I don’t know him and he is a grown up free to do whatever he wants. It’s a bummer since I’ve been so involved in the fandom for so long, but it’s all good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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