Dawn, we're not trying to bring you down, we're merely stating facts. Please try to be open minded about this! It's extremely frustrating the way you go on and on about your physical and mental pains everytime we do anything less than pat you on the back.
You said it yourself, you don't know much about computing, so when others who do know lots about computing tell you that your 'webdesigner' royally fucked you up the ass, well, it means that your webdesigner has just royally fucked you up the ass.
If we want to be taken seriously with Green Day Across The World, the website Renee tossed together for you with that childish Flash generator is not the way to accomplish this. You may think it looks awesome, but to be perfectly honest, the large organisations and companies you want to sponsor you aren't going to share that opinion.
Seriously, Dawn, can't you contact this Renee swine and demand your money back? I'll create a website ten times better better than the one you have now for free if you want me to! I swear on Green Day's music I will!